Relationship Diversity & Exploration
Beyond the “One-Size-Fits-All” Model
In our culture, we are often taught that there is only one “right” way to have a relationship. But at Relevant Connections, we know that human connection is as diverse as the people in it. Whether you are navigating Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), Polyamory, Open Dynamics, or are simply curious about shifting your relationship structure, you deserve a space that is free of judgment and rich in clinical expertise.
Exploring relationship diversity isn’t about “fixing” a broken marriage—it’s about intentionally designing a life that aligns with your values, your desires, and your need for connection.
A Safe Haven for Exploration
I founded this practice because I heard too many stories of couples being “shamed” by traditional therapists when they expressed interest in open dynamics. We provide a Safe, Informed, and Affirming space where your relationship structure is respected, not pathologized.
We help you navigate the “Relevant Connections” that make non-traditional structures thrive:
The “Opening Up” Transition: Moving from monogamy to an open structure requires a high degree of intentionality. we help you navigate the fears, the excitement, and the “logistics” of this transition.
Boundaries & Agreements: We help you move beyond “rules” (which are often rooted in fear) and toward “agreements” (which are rooted in mutual respect and safety).
Navigating Jealousy: We don’t view jealousy as a “stop sign,” but as a “signal.” We help you understand what your jealousy is trying to tell you about your needs and your attachment.
Our Specialized Approach to Diversity
Because we are a systemic practice, we don’t just look at the individual; we look at the entire “constellation” of your relationships.
Attachment Security (EFT): We use Emotionally Focused Therapy to ensure that your “primary” or “anchor” connections remain secure. Exploring other relationships is much safer when you know your home base is solid.
Parts Work: We explore the different “parts” of you that show up in this exploration—the part that seeks adventure, the part that feels protective, and the part that values autonomy.
EMDR & Trauma: Opening a relationship can sometimes trigger old attachment wounds or past traumas. Because every therapist on our team is EMDR-trained, we can help you process these “triggers” in real-time, preventing them from creating distance in your system.
Who We Support
We welcome all relationship configurations, including:
Couples “Opening Up”: Navigating the first steps of curiosity and boundary-setting.
Polyamorous Constellations: Supporting communication and conflict resolution within multi-partner systems.
Kink & BDSM Aware: Providing a space where your power dynamics and preferences are understood and respected.
Solo Polyamory & Relationship Anarchy: Supporting individuals who prioritize autonomy and non-traditional hierarchies.
Design Your Own Connection
You don’t have to follow a blueprint that doesn’t fit your heart. Whether you are looking to strengthen your existing structure or are ready to explore something entirely new, we are here to provide the steady, grounded, and specialized support you need.
Ready to explore the “Relevant Connections” in your life without judgment? Contact our Frisco office today to schedule a consultation.