It is so easy to get swept up in the magic of wedding planning—the venue, the guest list, the flowers. But at Relevant Connections, we believe the most important part of your wedding isn’t the day itself; it’s the decades that come after.

Most couples spend more time planning their honeymoon than they do planning their partnership. I created our premarital program to help you change that. We want to help you move past the “honeymoon phase” with a clear roadmap, a shared language, and the tools to handle whatever life throws your way.

Beyond Compatibility: The SYMBIS Advantage

Our therapists are certified facilitators for SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts), one of the most respected and research-backed premarital assessments in the world.

When you work with me, we don’t just “talk about your future.” We use the SYMBIS assessment to uncover the deep, often unspoken “Relevant Connections” in your relationship:

• Your Marriage Mindset: How your upbringing shaped your view of what a “good” marriage looks like.

• The “Money Dance”: Moving past budgets and into the emotional meaning behind how you save and spend.

• Communication & Conflict: Identifying your “hot buttons” and learning how to argue in a way that leads to connection rather than distance.

• Spiritual & Relational Intimacy: Aligning your values and expectations for your life together.

A Trauma-Informed Start

What makes our premarital counseling unique is that we don’t just look at the data; we look at the attachment. Because our entire team is EMDR-trained, we understand that even in the happiest seasons, old wounds or “blueprints” from our past can quietly influence how we show up for our partner.

We help you identify these patterns early, so you can enter your marriage with a clean slate and a nervous system that feels safe and connected.

Our Premarital Packages

We offer structured sessions designed to fit into your busy schedule before the big day. Our goal is to provide a space that is fun, insightful, and deeply grounding.

• Assess & Align: Complete the SYMBIS assessment and receive a 15-page “Roadmap for Your Marriage.”

• Identify the “Dance”: Use EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) techniques to understand your unique attachment style.

• Future-Proofing: Develop a “Conflict Plan” and an “Intimacy Blueprint” that evolves with you.

Don’t just plan a wedding. Invest in a marriage. Reach out to schedule your SYMBIS-guided premarital sessions today.

Invest in Your Shared Future

Ready to begin?

Set the course for a vibrant and resilient marital life. Let’s work together to build the foundation that will support your love for decades to come.

Book Your Premarital Counseling Session Now and embark on your marriage journey with confidence and clarity.